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Travelling with children: on a road trip

traveling with childrenAnyone with young children will know that whilst holidays are a fantastic opportunity to ‘get away from it all’ and spend quality time together.  Sometimes the stress of the journey to get there can make you question whether it’s worth all the effort!

Car journeys become arduous tasks filled with cries of ‘are we nearly there yet’ and numerous toilet stops, and travelling by public transport can be an embarrassing experience, particularly if your children take a liking (or dislike) any of your fellow passengers.

Here is a handy guide to keeping your little ones happy and content during the journey to and from your destination:

Communication

Taking the time to talk to your children about where you’re going before you set off is a great idea.  Explain to them in simple terms how long the journey is likely to take (for example, it’s a little bit further than grandpa’s house).  If they’re old enough, show them a map of where you’re going and talk about the journey, and some of the sights they’re likely to see during the journey.

In Car Entertainment

Children have a very short attention span so having a few interactive and interesting games up your sleeve to play during the journey is essential.  Traditional games like eye spy and the number plate game are still popular, but be creative!  Why not all take it turns to make up part of a story, or play a guessing game – the list is endless.

Alternatively, on-board DVD players and handheld games consoles offer a good way to keep little ones happy and content.  CD’s of your children’s favourite stories are also popular ways to keep both children, and parents calm and entertained.

Keep Refreshed

One of the most common complaints from children when travelling is that they are either hungry or thirsty.  Stopping at service stations to re-fuel can work out costly, and you will then often be limited to sugary snacks and drinks that wont help to keep your children calm!

Fill a box with healthy snacks, such as bread sticks, fruit, cheese and flapjacks, and pack several bottles of water or fruit juice.  These should keep the hunger pains at bay.

Be Flexible

When you have children, gone are the days of having a set agenda where you leave the house, and reach your destination at a set time.  Children have their own agenda, and with all the best will in the world you need to be flexible to deal with the unexpected – or allow yourself lots of extra time. 

Being flexible and prepared should take the stress out of dealing with emergency or unforeseen situations.  Organising your insurance through a reputable and helpful company like Expedia means you’ll be covered should the unexpected happen.  

Things you might forget when planning a road trip

Things You Might Forget When Planning a Road TripOnce you have decided on that once in a lifetime road trip across the country, there is little you can do other than dream about your perfect getaway. But before you get lost in the clouds, come back down to earth and plan your trip properly before you go. This is ensure fewer obstacles and more time spent enjoying your adventure. Follow this simple guide and make sure you don’t forget anything important when planning your next road trip.

Things change

You may plan your trip down to the last minute and have your entire route committed to memory but the first rule of a road trip is; things change. You should always allow for some leeway here and there so that if things so go slightly awry, it won’t mess up your whole schedule.

Make a list

Pretty much everyone who plans a trip will make at least one list at some point. The problem is, if you forget something from the list, chances are you will forget it for your trip too. The best advice is to carry your list and a pen wherever you go in the months before your trip so that if you suddenly remember something, you can write it down there and then.

Research, research, research!

Whether you are planning your trip based upon logical, rational reasoning or throwing darts at a map, you need to research where and when you are going in advance. Some places will only be accessible during certain times of the year and weather conditions can affect your journey as well. It is best to spend a few hours researching each place you intend to visit so that you can work out a route that suits your needs best.

Appropriate clothing

If you are planning a summer trip, you are probably packing your shorts, swimwear and sunglasses, but take a moment and think about this. Are you going to be doing any activities that require special clothing? Indoor or artificial skiing will require proper clothing to protect you, while a stop-off in a major city may mean you want to wear something fancy for a night out.

Insurance and breakdown

Picking the perfect vehicle for your adventure is simple really, but finding the right insurance, breakdown cover and recovery service can be a nightmare. As well as being expensive, you need to make sure your insurance covers everything and everyone who is on the trip.

Dads Cafe Breakfast Menu

This is what breakfast looked like at our house this morning. Every now and then using an A4 piece of paper I draw up a menu similar to the ones we get in a cafe and we all get to order what we would like to eat. It’s a bit of fun as kids love to role play games and you can pretend you are a waiter. I just include on the menu what is available in the fridge and pantry at the time.

dads cafe menu

The Super Dad’s guide to a healthy kids birthday party

The Super Dad’s Guide To A Healthy Kids Birthday Party

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Kids birthday parties can sometimes end with belly aches, nausea and sugar lows that are not much fun for anyone involved. Try to avoid sending home the neighborhood children with these symptoms by following our healthy party tips!

Don’t bring all of the food out at once

Lollies and kids go hand in hand and they will always choose an unhealthy food option over a healthy one any day. When you throw a party, put out a range of nutritious food platters that are healthy and filling and once you think the children are sufficiently full, you can offer the lollies and treats.

Smart drink choices

Water is the healthiest drink choice for everybody but when attending a party, the kids want something a little more tasty. Instead of juice, soft drink and cordial which are full of sugar, make them some slushies and smoothies using real fruit. You could even decorate the cups with a pineapple wedge or a strawberry for an extra special touch.

What to serve

It takes very little effort to provide tasty food that is both healthy and filling. A platter of sandwiches with a variety of fillings such as chicken and mayonnaise, egg and lettuce and ham and cheese are likely to satisfy everyones tastebuds. If you were thinking of doing hot food, mini pizzas with ham, cheese and pineapple are sure to please. Fruit sticks are a fun way to serve fruit. Thread watermelon, rockmelon, kiwi fruit and pineapple onto popsicle sticks. Add a marshmallow to each one as a surprise treat. For a final healthy treat idea, jelly cups with real fruit not only looks delicious but I’m sure your guests will think they taste great too.

Going natural

Where you can, go natural! Even though naturally flavoured lollies and chips still have a high sugar and fat content, you will be eliminating artificial colouring and flavouring which a lot of children have allergic reactions to and it can also affect their behaviour. The great thing about choosing these products is that they are usually free of preservatives too.

Swap the lolly bag for a treat bag

Instead of giving the kids lollies to take home, swap them for special treats. Bubbles, balloons, pencils, rubbers, stickers, toy cars, costume jewellery and temporary tattoos all make great treat bag ideas.

Have an sporty party

The choices for active parties these days are endless. You can have gymnastics parties, soccer parties, ten pin bowling parties and the any of your favourite sports team as theme. So even if the kids have had some sugary food during the party, they will well and truly burn it off before they go home.

At your next kid’s birthday party, try a few of the above ideas and see what a difference it makes. The only other important thing to remember is to send your party invitations out in time for the birthday bash.

Guest written by Mike Cutcliffe

Mike prides himself as a ‘super dad’ being a stay-at-home father of 3 boys while running his home-based IT business. He has recently held a 10th birthday party for his son and got everyone to dress as their favourite sports stars.

Top family road trips in Australia

Twelve_Apostles_Victoria_AustraliaRalph Waldo Emerson’s famous words, “Life is a journey, not a destination,” still inspire today. The journey is the destination, or rather, it’s not the destination but the journey that matters most… For road trippers, the journey is just as remarkable as the destination, especially if you and your family are embarking on a summertime road trip in Australia.

Australia is a beautiful destination that offers pristine beaches, exotic wild animals and captivating scenery for road-tripping families. From beautiful rain forests and natural wonders to the thriving cities of Sydney and Melbourne, the diverse landscape of Australia provides ideal sites to travel and explore. Don’t forget to take a few steps to prepare. For example, check your engine at your local auto shop, get a car insurance comparison to ensure you have the best coverage, and create your own interactive and customized maps using ZeeMaps.com.

Take on any of the following road trips to amazing destinations for unforgettable experiences and discoveries that kids of all ages will enjoy:

Thredbo Resort

Planning a summer trip to the Australian Thredbo Resort is both scenic and adventurous from the moment your car hits the road to cruising downhill on your bike. Thredbo Alpine Village is outdoorsy family’s dream getaway, and the drive to the destination is just as much of an adventure as the resort’s thrilling activities. Leisurely scenic chair rides, fly fishing and mountain biking are among the many day adventures that families can partake in. Check out the spectacular views of Kosciuszko while abseiling, or take a Mt. Kosciuszko helicopter tour and experience the beauty of the wilderness from an incredible vantage point. From day trips and tranquil natural swimming holes to a scenic Kosciuszko Alpine Lakes Guided Walk, the Thredbo Resort is where to travel next.

Kosciuszko National Park

The alpine and stunning landscape of Kosciuszko National park is the perfect outdoor destination for hiking and biking families. The national park is home to Australia’s highest peak, Mount Kosciuszko, in the Australian Alps’ Snow Mountains Range. Adventurous climbers can ascend the summit while taking in breathtaking views along the way. Bushwalkers can also take the glacial Lakes Walk from Charlotte Pass to reach the mountain’s summit. For outdoor enthusiasts who love to feel the fast-paced thrills of mountain biking, and the popular trails Mosquito Creek, Blue Waterholes and Wallace Creek Trails provide unforgettable outdoor experiences and beautiful natural landscapes.

The Great Ocean Road, Victoria

Show your children the beauty of the Great Ocean Road in Victoria while driving past unimaginable views, including peaceful secluded bays, breathtaking cliffs and distinct rock formations. The Great Ocean Road, an Australian National Heritage, extends between the cities of Torquay and Warrnambool along the south-eastern coast. Kids will love to explore landmarks such as The Grotto, London Arch and Twelve Apostles as they continue along the world’s largest war memorial. Erskine Falls in the Great Otway National Park is also an excellent stop for everyone to experience the beauty of nature and gorgeous cascading falls.

The Great Green Way

Between Townsville and Cairns, Far North Queensland, the Great Green Way is exactly what its name implies. The gorgeous green way extends over 12 National Parks and 25 tropical islands. The relaxed way of life is defined by local pubs, farming and fishing. Travel to the various towns of Ingham, Mission Beach, Cardwell and Tully to meet with locals, nosh on tropical fruits and traverse the untamed wilderness. Take your family on an exploration to immaculate beaches on deserted islands and stunning coral reefs. While visiting the towns of the Great Green Way, experience Hinchinbrook Island aboard a ferry cruise, swim at Ramsay Bay, go snorkelling in the Great Barrier Reef or dive at the SS Yongala, a national historical wreck full of marine life and artefacts.

Sydney to Melbourne

Driving the Hume Highway from Sydney to Melbourne is a favourite and frequent road trip for Australian travel blogger Lee Atikinson. Tourists who are travelling to Sydney and Melbourne can turn the commute into an exciting road trip by stopping to watch the sunset over Lake Hume or exploring the small towns of Walwa and Tintaldra along the Victoria bank. The Snowy Mountains are picturesque scenery as the Alpine Way drive continues. Go horseback riding in Jindabyne, kayak in Tuross Lake and visit the shops of Tilba Tilba. As you and your children travel from the exciting city of Sydney to the cultural city centre of Melbourne, there’s always something new to discover.

Guest writer:  Ken Watkins, JournoMedia

Things to do in Brisbane with the kids

Are you thinking about what to do with the kids this weekend or over school holidays? There are some great Brisbane suggestions below.

Hey… why not tell us about your favourite activities? Feel free to contribute your ideas and we will include them in our list.

Museums, State Library and GoMA
Located right next to each other near Southbank, the Queensland Museum, State Library and Gallery of Modern Art make a fantastic day out for the whole family.

The Queensland Museum has all your typical exhibits – dinosaurs, native species from the present and past, Indigenous history and transport history, but from a Queensland focus. There’s a number of hands on exhibits and the whole museum is very kid friendly. Better yet entry is free. Be sure to check out the dinosaur garden in the basement but watch out for the Raptor song, it tends to get stuck in your head.

Underneath the museum is an excellent Science Centre, although there’s a entrance fee.

Next door the museum, the State Library has a great imaginative play area that’s perfect for under 8’s. There’s crafts, puppets, toy kitchens, computers with drawing activities and staff on help out. There’s also a giant chess set for older children.

Just next door to the State Library, the Gallery of Modern Art (GoMA) often has family friendly exhibits. It also have a specific area for children with crafts and interactive activities based around the current exhibitions. The activities and displays change all the time but they’re usually wonderful and always free.

Ride a CityCat to New Farm Park
A ride on a CityCat (Brisbane’s river ferry) is an adventure in itself. They’re fast so standing on the deck is a lot of fun. Plus it’s a great way to see the city.

To make the ride even better, catch the CityCat to New Farm park to experience one of Brisbane’s best playgrounds. Built up and around giant fig trees there’s something for children of all ages. Thanks to the floods in early 2011 the park has recently been completely renovated.

The playground has plenty of shade and there are plenty of seats for parents and nearby coffee shops. If you have time, the nearby Powerhouse Museum usually has great exhibitions for teens.

CBD Parks
Central Brisbane has three fantastic parks
within a short walk of the CBD – Southbank Parklands, the Botanical Gardens and Roma St Parklands.

Botanical Gardens
All ages will love the Botanical Gardens and in particular young children as there is a great playground, you can ride bikes/scooters/skates through.  Along the riverbank there’s also an interesting Mangrove boardwalk where you can learn about mangrove forests.

Roma Street Parklands
With a duck pond, plenty of boardwalks to explore, a great playground for all ages the Roma Street Parklands is a great day out.  An observation deck where you can watch the trains pulling in and out of the tunnels for Roma St train station.  On weekends there’s often a kids train running around the gardens, although it’s not particularly cheap.

Lone Pine Koala Sanctuary
Unlike Sydney and Melbourne, Brisbane doesn’t have a state zoo.  But what it does have is Lone Pine Koala Sanctuary – a fantastic open-range zoo with a great range of native animals. Entry used to be very quite reasonable but it’s gone up recently. Still it’s a fantastic zoo and you can feed the kangaroos that are free to roam a large enclosure.

If you don’t have time to get to Australia Zoo on the Sunshine Coast, Lone Pine is a great alternative. It’s not as large but it’s a lot lot cheaper, less busy and offers the same opportunities to get up close to Australian wildlife.

Lone Pine is in the western suburbs but several buses and one boat daily go there. Check out the Sanctuary’s website for full instructions on how to get there.

Mt Cootha Lookout and Botanical Gardens.

The mountain just near Toowong to the west of the city offers great views. On a clear day you can see almost all the way to the coast and south to Ipswich, as well as the CBD.

At the base of the mountain is a lovely botanical gardens with restaurants, picnic spots and duck ponds. There’s also a great planetarium. The highlight for our kids was always the cactus gardens and the dinosaur gardens filled with ancient conifers and cycads that have existed for millions of years. They loved seeing “real dinosaur food”.

The city council 471 bus leaves from Adelaide and Albert St in the city for Mt Cootha. Alternatively you can catch a train to Toowong and then take a taxi.

Visit the Alma Park Zoo
An exciting yet affordable thing to do with kids in Brisbane with kids is to visit the Alma Park Zoo, which is 30 minutes north of the CBD in Dakabin. The zoo is open daily and has extensive tropical palm gardens all around the 15 hectare site. Alma Zoo also features a wide variety of Australian, international and even some endangered animals that have to be seen to be believed.

Golf Driving Range
If  you like golf  or even to introduce the game to your kids try The Big East Golf and Leisure Center, they have putting greens and driving ranges which will keep you occupied for hours. If you really want to get serious you can even have a lesson, best to always book ahead.

 

Things to do in Melbourne with the kids

Are you thinking about what to do with the kids this weekend or over school holidays? There are some great Melbounre suggestions below.

Hey… why not tell us about your favourite activities? Feel free to contribute your ideas and we will include them in our list.

  • A Compass Trail is an adventure for kids of all ages to experience how Captain Cook navigated the world. Sat 30 Jun 2012 to Sun 15 Jul 2012 Captain Cooks Cottage, Fitzroy Gardens Wellington Parade East Melbourne
  • Be the rockstar and director in this fun and easy music video workshop.
    Instant Rockstar lets kids unleash their inner pop diva and guitar hero. Create a hit song using lots of cool music samples, then use the track to make a music video. Arts Centre Melbourne 100 St Kilda Road Melbourne 04/07/2012 to 06/07/2012 Wednesday: 10:30am – 1pm Friday: 10:30am – 1pm
  • Ride on Puffing Billy the historic steam train through the stunning Dandenong Ranges.
  • Visit Healesville Wildlife Park, they have over 200 species of Australian Wildlife in their native habitat.
  • Go to Werribee Wildlife Park and join the Wildlife Safari Tour where you will see rhinos, giraffes, zebra and eland.
  • Explore the Botanic Gardens; it has a special Children’s Garden, an Ornamental Lake, Rainforest Walk and a Water Conservation Garden.
  • Get lost in The Enchanted Seat Maze, there are three formal mazes including one especially designed for children with tree fairies and a lock ness monster.
  • Let the kids milk a cow at Collingwood Children’s farm, you will also see donkeys, horses, goats, sheep, pigs geese and ducks.
  • Take a ride on the Tram to Fitzroy, South Yarra, St Kilda, Carlton, and Richmond or around the city loop.
  • Have a picnic on the banks of the bustling Yarra River; there are lots of lovely spots near the Botanic Gardens.
  • Visit Queen Victoria Market on a Sunday, it has an outdoor cafe, children’s rides and activities.
  • Hire at boat from the Studley Park Boathouse, paddle around and listen out for the bellbirds.

Things to do in Sydney with the kids

Are you thinking about what to do with the kids this weekend or over school holidays? There are some great Sydney suggestions below.

Hey why not tell us about your favourite activities? Feel free to contribute your ideas and we will include them in our list.

  • Carp are an aquatic pest species which degrade the quality of Parklands’ pond water. Volunteer anglers have been removing Carp in order to manage the population, but why should the adults have all the fun? Meet at the Busby Promontory, near Rose Garden, Centennial Park. 3rd – 12th July between 9am – 12pm. or phone to book  during business hours (02) 9339 6699.
  • Visit the National Maritime Museum and climb a 19th century lighthouse. With a whole host of interactive maritime exhibits, both indoors and outside, the kids will be busy for hours.
  • See Koalas in their natural environment. You can walk through the rainforest and watch the koalas eating and sleeping. There are also kangaroos that you can hand feed, the younger kids will love this one.
  • Walk across the Sydney Harbour Bridge and watch the busy bustling city as it goes about its daily life. Not for the faint hearted!
  • Go bushwalking in Bouddi National Park, this park has a series of small, beautiful beaches beneath forests, steep hills and cliffs; it is a lovely national park suitable for the whole family.
  • Visit Calmsleyhill Farm, it’s a 580 acre working sheep and cattle farm, you can see the cow milking, sheep shearing, working dogs and much more.
  • Take a ferry ride on the magnificent Sydney Harbour, this is truly the best way to see the city’s favourite playground.
  • Go to the Beach; Bronte, Balmoral, Nielsen Park and Shelley Beach are all great kid-friendly beaches. Don’t forget to take the buckets and spades or your boogie boards.
  • Feed the Pelicans at The Entrance. Pelican Feeding is the Central Coast’s most popular tourist attraction and operates at 3.30pm daily, 365 days a year come rain, hail or shine.
  • Visit Vera’s Water Garden, every child likes to dangle their feet in water, run through water sprays and climb all over things, and Vera’s Water Garden has all this and more.
  • Picnic at Bicentennial Park, the park has bbq’s, lovely picnic areas, 2 children’s playgrounds, boardwalks and cycle ways.

Royal Botanical Gardens Melbourne

The picturesque setting of the Royal Botanic Gardens Melbourne extends over 36 hectares and displays more than 50,000 plants. Diverse plant collections, year-round events, unique tours, and a reputation as one of the world’s finest gardens has made the Royal Botanic Gardens one of Melbourne’s most popular tourist attractions and a great place for Dads to walk, sit and play around with the kids and get some air for a few hours.

Where: Birdwood Avenue South Yarra, Victoria 3141
Distance by car: An easy 5 minute drive from CBD Melbourne
Contact: 03 92522300
Website: http://http://www.rbg.vic.gov.au/rbg-melbourne
Open: 7.30am to sunset every day of the year
Payment: entry is FREE
Kids: Absolutely

There two cafes operating at the Royal Botanic Gardens Melbourne.

1. The Terrace (within the gardens by the lake)
2. Observatory Cafe (outside opposite the war memorial)

Out door seating is limited and it can be expensive if your purchasing food and drinks. So if it’s a nice day pack a picnic rug and lunch and find yourself a beautiful position on one of the many grassy lawns.

Hey dad, why is the sea salty?

Have you ever been caught out not knowing how to answer one of those tough question, like many of us, a great response has always been “good question, lets look it up on Google”.  Below are a few of those questions and answers that we found on Google 🙂

 

HOW IS ELECTRICITY MADE?
Answer – It comes from magnets! In the early 1800s, Michael Faraday discovered “electromagnetic induction”, which is the scientific way of saying that if he moved a magnet through a loop of wire, the wire would become electrified.  In 1882, Thomas Edison opened the first full-scale power plant in New York City. Edison’s electric generator was a bigger version of Faraday’s basic experiment; a big magnet rotates around a wire to produce an electric current.  Today’s power plants are bigger and controlled by computers, but the basic process is still the same as it was nearly 120 years ago.

WHY IS THE SKY BLUE?
Answer – White sunlight is really a lot of different colours of light mixed together. Some colours of light travel through air and dust better than others. Red goes a long, long way.  But blue light gets bounced around a lot. Our blue sky is blue light that has been bounced out of sunlight by gazillions of molecules of air.

WHERE DOES THE WIND COME FROM?
Answer – Wind is “AIR IN MOTION” (or Moving Air) and is made by differences in the AIR PRESSURES. Warm Air rises, pushes up … (like when you open a heated oven’s door and the heat bellows out and goes straight UP to the ceiling like helium filled balloon.) Warm Air is light in weight. While on the other hand, Cold Air is heavy in weight and keeps closer to the earth’s surface. So wind is ‘made’ when the sun heats the earth’s surface and the air near the surface become warmer and lighter.  This warm air rises and while it is rising, cold/cooler air replaces where the warm air left.  Then that cool air is eventually heated and rises, too this process is continual. This movement of air is called, you guessed it…WIND!

WHY IS THE SEA SALTY?
Answer – The sea is salty because the rivers that flow into it wash salts and other minerals out of the ground.  These dissolve in the rivers and the rivers then flow into the sea. Another source of salt is the sea bed. As the Sun evaporates the water from the sea to make clouds, it leaves the salts and minerals behind, so the sea is much saltier than rivers and lakes.  Even though it rains on the sea as on land, this isn’t enough to dilute the salt.

HOW DO PLANES FLY IN THE SKY?
Answer – It may seem unbelievable that a heavy plane can get up into the air, but it’s all down to the clever shape of its wings.  If you look at a plane close up, you’ll see that the top of each wing is curved and the bottom is flat.  As the plane moves forward powered by the engine (in the same way your parents’ car goes when they turn on the engine), air pushes up on the flat bottom of the wing harder than it pushes down on the curved top.  This is what causes it to lift up into the air and then stay there.

WHAT MAKES THUNDER?
Answer – When you see a flash of lightning in the sky, it is often followed by a crashing boom of thunder.  This is because when lightning moves through the sky, it heats up the air to thousands of degrees centigrade – that’s hotter than the surface of the Sun. The heated-up air rushes away into the cooler air surrounding it.  This moving air makes a loud bang, and that is what we call thunder.

WHY DO YOU BLINK?
Answer – The very front of your eye is made of an extremely sensitive see-through screen rather like the windscreen on your parents’ car.  It’s very important that it stays clean and moist so that you can see as well as possible. So every ten or 20 seconds, your eyelids close, spreading a thin layer of tears over your eye which washes off any bits of dust or anything else that may have got into it, like a car’s windscreen wiper with squirty screen wash.  If we didn’t blink so much, we wouldn’t be able to see properly, so it’s lucky we do!

WHERE DO BABIES COME FROM?
Answer – You know chicks come from eggs and plants come from seeds? Well, humans are very special because we come from an egg and a seed.  The dad has the seed inside his body and the mum has the egg in hers, and they give each other a massive cuddle because they love each other so much, and that amazing big hug is like two pieces of a jigsaw fitting together, or two bits of Lego.  That way, the dad’s seed can meet the mum’s egg, and it makes a baby that will be born nine months later.

WHAT HAPPENS TO US WHEN WE DIE?
Answer – WHEN we die, we go back into the earth and the air and the plants, and become a part of all the world again.  Imagine a leaf unfurling bright green in the spring, and then stronger and darker in summer, then turning orange and falling to the ground in autumn.  In the winter, it melts down into the earth to give its goodness back to what will grow next spring. I think our life is like that.  But because human beings love each other, all of us live on in the memories of people we have known.

WHERE DOES WATER COME FROM?
Answer – Most scientists think the Earth’s water came from water-rich asteroids (really tiny planets) and comets raining down on the planet when it was young.  Others think the oceans were home-grown – they may have formed because the young Earth had a thick blanket of a gas called hydrogen, which reacted with chemicals in the Earth’s surface to form lakes and seas.

 

These are just some of the tough questions from children, if you have some experiences or have other answers, share them here.