We seem to live by other peoples rules, each day worrying about what other people think, sacrificing who we are because someone else might have a problem with it.
We need to love who we are, be courageous and confident and live instead of just surviving. By using some fundamental basics (listed below), that in the event that someone doesn’t agree with us, then its their reality not ours.
These fundamentals are:
- BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD
- Speak with integrity
- Say only what you mean
- Avoid using words to speak against yourself or to gossip about others
- Use the power of your word to speak only with honesty and friendship
- DON’T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY
- Nothing others do is because of you
- What others say and do is a projection of their own reality
- When you are immune to the opinion and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering
- DON’T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS
- Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want
- Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings
- If you live by just this 1 rule, you can completely change your life
- ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST
- Your best will always change from day to day moment to moment – it will be different depending on wether you are healthy or sick, happy or sad.
- Under any circumstance, simply do your best and you will avoid self-judgement, self-torment and any regret
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